For many adult children of narcissists, the struggle for self-esteem and authenticity is a lifelong battle.

Raised by parents who were unable to see them as real people, they often feel empty, unreal, and undeserving of love, perpetuating a cycle of emotional abuse in their own relationships. They may sense that something is deeply wrong, but not know how to break free from the invisible cage of their upbringing.

In Trapped in the Mirror, psychoanalyst Elan Golomb, Ph.D. -- herself the child of a narcissist -- provides a powerful and compassionate guide to understanding and healing. Drawing on decades of clinical experience and numerous case studies, she illuminates the complex dynamics of narcissistic families, explaining how a parent's need for control and admiration creates a legacy of self-doubt and anxiety in their children. This book offers the profound insight that your struggle for self is not only real -- it's winnable.

It is possible to undo the illusions and find your true identity. The journey begins with understanding the hidden wounds of a narcissistic upbringing and learning, finally, how to heal them.

• Recognize a Narcissist: Learn the definitive traits -- from an inflated sense of self-importance to a profound inability to empathize -- and see how they have shaped your family dynamics.

• Heal the Inner Critic: Understand the "negative introject" -- the harsh inner voice of the parent you have internalized -- and discover how to replace it with self-acceptance.

• End Painful Relationships: Explore why so many children of narcissists are drawn to narcissistic partners and learn how to break the cycle of repeating your childhood trauma.

• Build an Authentic Self: Move beyond feeling like a "fake" or "nothing" by reconnecting with your true feelings and learning that you have a right to exist for yourself.

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• Publication Date: June 19, 2012
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• Print Length: 274 Pages
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