Let's just face it: first dates are awkward.

Sorry to break it to you, but romantic meet-cutes are a thing of the past; swipes are in, and hope is out! Just kidding. Sort of.

And yet, here we are. You've swiped right and - PING! It's a match.

Congrats.

You've been talking for a while and are now itching for a first meet.

Unfortunately, as fun and exciting as the idea of a first date might seem, the actual prospect of it can be seriously daunting. Especially if you've had your share of painful meetups.

I mean, who hasn't?

Let's be real: Catfishing could be an event in the dating Olympics (and I've had the misfortune of meeting some serious competitors in this discipline!).

But do we continue to put ourselves out there? Yes. And will we be willing to move past the possibility of a disastrous encounter with a stranger? Of course.

Call it eternal hope, romanticism, or straight-up foolishness, our human need for connection is strong and the possibility of meeting a potential soulmate will make us do senseless things.

Hold that thought - back to the app.

So you've been messaging back and forth, perhaps exchanged numbers, and have finally agreed on a time and location for a first date.

You get ready and make your way to the venue. As you enter the potential first-date crime scene, you're hit with a solid case of jitters, and a dash (okay, more like a dollop) of regret. Second-thoughts begin to cloud your mind as you are suddenly flooded with a sharp awareness of the high risk of this impending disaster.

Joke's on you, though: It's too late to run. Shit.

So, you swallow what's left of your pride as you stand there, feeling awkward AF, trying to spot your stranger.

Probably praying you won't accidentally start flirting with some innocent passer-by who was just out for an evening stroll.

Nothing like a first date, uh?

Meeting someone for the first time after merely seeing photos or exchanging a few words is bound to be daunting. For one thing, we inevitably construct a whole persona based on the person's photos, choice of vocabulary and communication type. It's just the way we are.

Through attempting to find a suitable mate, we are bound to assess every swipee's potential and unconsciously create an entire pre and post-date narrative.

That's where Swipe to Play comes in.

Asking questions is one of the best ways to get to know someone. It's a respectful approach and a foundational principle of healthy communication.

Choosing the right questions is tricky, so I've got you covered with:


• Smooth openings: Ice breakers

• Psyche Digs: Personality types, love languages and intellectual compatibility

• Cross Examination: Fill in the blank, Lightning round, Quick fire interest quiz

• Unloading baggage: Diving into dating history, family and upbringing

• Sunday Roast: Revealing lovable quirks

• Flirt & Dirt: Naughty and offbeat questions

• Just Don't: Things you should never ask on a first date

• Your foolproof getaway plan

With a focus on open-ended questions for a more genuine dive into a stranger's soul, these conversation openers will relieve the pressure of first meets and create a playful premise for your (hopefully successful) first date.

And, if all fails, I've got your back: Jump ahead to part 8 for your contingencies and quick escape plans.

Are you ready to crack the first-date code?

Scroll up and click Add to Cart to find your human with these 99 witty questions that will have you laughing, blushing, and avoiding many a first-date faux pas.

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• Publication Date: January 31, 2023
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